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Wednesday, 24 October 2012

THE PERFECT CREATURE CALLED WOMAN


The ‘Wired Mind’
A woman’s mind can be compared to a ball of wire where everything in her life is connected. This connection is made possible by the manner in which all the events in her life are linked to emotion thereby making them memorable moments. This is the reason why women remember everything in detail unlike men whose retention capacity is limited to the main headline of an event.
The ability to remember everything in detail is what enables a woman to multitask and that’s why she can be able to retain more than two professional jobs, take care of her family e.t.c and still maintain efficiency.
The interrelation of all the events in a woman’s mind can also explain how she copes with stress in her life. In the event that a woman is troubled, she prefers to talk about her issues to the people close to her like friends; boyfriend or husband, the task of these individuals is to listen without any interruption until all her tension is released thereby experiencing a state of catharsis.
In my opinion a woman has the best stress coping mechanism as she is able to easily open up to the people close to her and thereby draw constructive solutions to her problems. Men on the other hand tend to bottle up their issues and in the end some commit suicide or engage in anti-social behaviors.
These my friends is why a woman is a perfect creature as she presents a competent approach to life and is one who is not likely to self destruct when the going gets tough. Thank you.

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT HER MAN


The ‘Nothing Box’
The brain of a man is structured in a way that very few privileged women understand and it’s because of this fact that we witness very many relationship break ups in the course of our lives. A Mans brain is made up of tiny little boxes. Each box contains only one activity that he carries out on a day to day basis. For example if the boxes are numbered say from one to ten then box one will only contain issues relating to his work, box two will only contain issues relating to his car and so forth.
The masculine brain only has the capacity to handle one box at a time otherwise referred to as single tasking and it is until the completion of handling the issues pertaining to box number one can he then proceed to deal with the issues pertaining to box number two.  The period taken for this transition is usually unknown and is relative to the issue at hand.
Out of these boxes, there is one known as the ‘nothing box’ which contains nothing. It is like a void or a vacuum, and it is this box that a man ventures in when he is stressed or relaxing. When a man is in his nothing box he usually prefers to be left alone as it’s in his efforts to lock the world away and keep to himself other than discussing his issues as women are fond of doing when confronted with similar situations.
Every woman in my opinion should internalize this concept in their lives as it is from this school of thought that one can be able to understand why a man would prefer to play his video game, watch television the whole day other than fixing the broken sink or look after the kids.
However, a man does not stay in his nothing box forever, he in time snaps out of it and in very limited cases may discuss his issues with you his wife/girlfriend or self sufficiently find a solution to his problems and move on to the next box quietly.